if only someone dared enough . . .
That was the title of a talk/discussion I heard about recently - I didn't go, and I have to admit I don't really know what was said, but I thought it might be kinda interesting to try and make up my own such list, so here goes, in no particular order, and I have no idea whether I'll have that many ...
- Forget about numbers
I feel like I'm always hearing about how church numbers are declining. Sure that poses challenges for our future, but I don't think the best way to deal with that is to concentrate on the fact. A scratched itch will rarely go away, of you know what I'm saying ... Get on with life - which brings me to my next point. - Get on with loving - just loving
A lot of churches a finding incredible ways to connect with their local communities, but I always find that these are always talked about as opportunities to witness, opportunities to increase our numbers. I think that compromises our ability to love them fully. If we have an agenda in our love, then that is not Godly love. We are called primarily to love. So do it. It's not complicated. - Value diversity
If someone has a new idea, a new way of seeing things, a new way of doing things, that's fantastic. Why do some people insist they have a monopoly on what's "right" and what's "best", or worse - on God's will. Credit where credit's due though - there are churches doing this quite well already, they just tend not to be the ones that shout the loudest. - Integrate with the community
I feel like we're always acting as a separate entity, when really by our nature we should be an integral part of the community. Lose the boundaries. Don't be so "us and them" about everything. Don't talk and think about Christians and non-Christians, think about people. - The list goes on ...
Most of the other things that I want to add are variations on the same themes, so I won't bore you with more. But there is one other thing... - Love and value everyone
Sure, it goes without saying, and I think most of us are doing OK on this front, but I think it's easy to forget. At the end of the day, this is what we're about, and failing to do this probably is the most common cause of church problems. I'm not saying be artificially super-nice and a "good Christian." I'm saying love everyone. Wastefully. And its starts with those closest to you.